Successful people expect to fail,but do not see it as a bad or negative experience. They know that if you have failed in the past,this doesn't mean that you will necessarily fail in the future. On the other hand,they know that previous success does not guarantee you continued success.
Failure should be your greatest friend because no matter how successful a man is,there is always an element of failure in it. For example,if a student gets 99% out of 100%, it is an excellent result and a mind blowing result but the truth is that he failed also.He failed 1%.
There are always problems in your business, your life, your relationships and everything else that matters to you. Things change,problems arise,people leave you. All these means that you have to deal with difficulties everyday of your life.
How you decide to deal with these setbacks is one thing that will separate you from the ones who truly fail. Every successful person has ups and downs. They may be due to loss of key friends,cash flow etc . Life is business and business is about risk and change, so tough times are always around the corner.
You can transform the way you experience your failure by shifting your perspective. If you wallow in failure, spend a moment contemplating the problems of other people in the world.
Everyone's history is full of great solutions to difficult problems. We just forget to see it that way. In difficult times,review your past and draw strength from all those creative decisions you made. It will instantly give you confidence in your ability to come out on top.
WHY FAILURE SHOULD BE YOUR GREATEST FRIEND
Failure is there to make us better,wiser,smarter,more cautious or even more adventurous. Be realistic about failure and you ll see that it is a tremendous opportunity.You can even become excited about it.
Failure gives you the information you need to do better. Most acts of genius come after years of trying to solve a problem and failing. Nobody embarks on a journey to success and enjoys success throughout. The road to success is filled with avenues and streets of failure.
The great minds and scientists of history often spend most of their lives failing. Yet their ability to learn from their failures had literally created the world we live in today. So you have to make failure your greatest friend.
Failure is a wonderful catalyst for change. Few of us love change for change's sake. Usually we have to be forced to accept it. The discomfort of failure and desperate times should be our motivation to accept and embrace change.
So you should have a constant relationship with failure because there is no successful man who did not lie at the corridors of failure....
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