HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU!!!

Friends are assets that a man must have for a complete life. They are people like family members whose company brings joy and happiness to a person. A man without friends is like a car without a gearbox.

 You tend not to enjoy the simplicity of life. But it is wisdom to know that you can't make a friend if you don't know how to make people like you. When people like you,they can go the extra mile for you.

Here are 5 ways used overtime by the best conversationalist to make people like you.

- BE GENUINELY INTERESTED IN OTHER PEOPLE

You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.

People are not interested in you. They are interested in themselves morning,noon and night. When you see a group photograph that you are in,what picture do you look for first?

People become interested in you when you are first interested in them. I have discovered from personal experience that we can win the cooperation of anybody by becoming genuinely interested in them.

If we want to win friends,let's put ourselves out to do things for other people. Things that require time,energy, unselfishness and thoughtfulness. Strive to remember their birthdays and always look out for how to change something in someone.


- SMILE

The expression on your face is far more important than the clothes you put on. It is the most expensive makeup a lady can ever wear yet so cheap to use. You don't feel like smiling?? Then what?? First force yourself to smile and then act as if you were already happy and that will tend to make you happy.

It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about. For example, two people may be in the same place, doing the same thing with the same amount of money and prestige and yet one may be miserable and the other happy.Why? Because of a different mental attitude.

Whenever you go out of your door,draw the chin in,fill the lungs to the utmost,greet everyone with a smile. Smiling Costs nothing but creates much,it happens in a flash but the memory of it lasts a long time.
It cannot be begged, bought, or stolen. For it is something that is no earthly good to anyone till it is given away.


- NEVER FORGET A MAN'S NAME

Men are so proud of their names that they strive to perpetuate them at any cost. Take out time and energy to concentrate and fix names indelibly in your mind.

When people tell you their names,always try to call them by that the next time you see them. If you do not remember, a simple hi will do. Never make the mistake of calling a person someone else's name. It is simply stating how unimportant the person is to you.

Try to ask for names and remember them. Remember that a man's name is to him the sweetest and the most important sound in English language.


- BE A GOOD LISTENER

If you want to know how to make people shun you and laugh at you behind your back and even despise you, never listen to anyone for long. The man who thinks only of himselfis hopelessly uneducated.

 If you aspire to make people like you,be an attentive listener. To be interesting, you need to be interested. Ask questions that the other person will enjoy answering and encourage him/her to talk about themselves.

Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself. His toothache means more to him than an earthquake in Benin city. So when dealing with people,be attentive no matter how boring it might seem.


- MAKE THE OTHER PERSON FEEL IMPORTANT

The deepest principle in human nature is craving to be appreciated. It is the urge that differentiates us from animals. It is the urge that has been responsible for civilization itself.So do unto others as you would have others do to you.

Give unto others the feeling of importance all the time,everywhere. It is a golden rule that if we keep,we will attract people to ourselves. Tell someone she is beautiful, appreciate that Guy's new shirt and haircut. Tell that lady how gorgeous her new hair is and enjoy doing it.

Would you like to make anyone fall in love with you?? Its simple. Let me tell you the secret. Its no trick at all. All you need to do is to talk to the lady about herself. The same thing applies for a guy.

Talk to anybody with a feeling of importance and they will listen for hours. Remember that friends are assets!!! Put these five things in place and anybody that dislikes you has an issue with nature!!!